Live Like You're Married!

Let me begin by posing a question, why single individuals want to get married?

Below may possibly one of the many reasons:
1. To enjoy the pleasure of sex within the bounds of marriage
2. To escape or run from the struggles and troubles the immediate family has brought
3. To have an ideal family (2 children minimum, 3 maximum)
4. To become better and more responsible individuals
5. Because they are not getting any younger

I guess there are bunch of reasons why single people want to be married in a hurry. But the problem is that you dont want to enter marriage with a wrong perspective. Let's say you decided to marry because some people pressured you to get married. That's being unintelligent.

Now, if marriage is something you want to happen next in your life what I can suggest is to start dating first and pick the right person for you that you think you want spend eternity with.

While waiting for that period of your life to emerge, live your life as if you are married. What do I mean? Think what kind of family you want to establish, and be more responsible individual.

To sum it up, there is something married people do that a single individual should do!

Check Out My Featured Friend of the Week

I thought of adding a page element on my blog that will feature one of my friends.

Each week, it will be a different person that will be featured.

I am proud to have them as friends and so I came up with this idea to let my readers know who I'm flying with in the certainty of singleness as the old saying goes, "birds of the same feathers flock together".

To view my featured friend of the week, scroll down to the bottom of the page.

The Mystical Views on Singleness

I came across a blog that contemplates on the myths of singleness. It shares the truths behind the myths that she exemplify.

To give you a first taste of Suzanne's blog, let me quote one of the myths.

"There must be something wrong with me. If I could just figure out what it is, I could fix it and guys would start showing interest."

I don't know about you but I strongly disagree with these words.

It is my belief that you don't need to change to be loved because you will change when you are loved.

I urge in the strongest possible terms most single women to stop wasting thousands of dollars to change parts of your body just to be liked or loved. Instead, use them for noble purposes.

You don't need to hurry to get married, just do your thing as single individuals.

Live a life that is honourable than live a desperate life with pleasures.

My First Post

I want to dedicate my first ever blog post to my closest friends who work in the same company with me except for Malu, the one on the right side of your monitor. Take note all of them are enjoying the life of being single.

Contrary to the popular belief that being single is boring, we strongly refute such an idea. As you can see in the image above, it shows that singlehood brings happiness, excitement and independence.

Few days ago, I was trying to think of a word that best describes singlehood. And I ended with the word "UNBOUND". This word encompasses the whole meaning of being single.

As single and unbound individuals, we were born to excel despite the negative conotation singleness brings to us.

To all single individuals out there, long live to all of us!